How to navigate separations with mutual respect and long-term solutions

When it comes to family law, the way a dispute is handled can make a profound difference in the lives of those involved. Cheltenham's collaborative trained solicitor Charlotte Perry talks SoGlos through the process of collaboration over conflict.

By Emma Luther  |  Published
Knights law shares what it means to work with a collaborative trained solicitor and the benefits of this approach for clients.
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Knights in Cheltenham has a new collaborative trained solicitor, Charlotte Perry.

She knows that when it comes to family law, the way a dispute is handled can make a profound difference in the lives of those involved, particularly when children are concerned.

Having a focus on collaboration rather than conflict, Charlotte helps clients navigate the complexities of separation in a way that prioritises dignity, respect, and long-term solutions.

SoGlos chats to Charlotte about what it means to work with a collaborative trained solicitor and the benefits of this approach for clients.

What is collaborative law?

Collaborative law is an alternative dispute resolution process where separating couples work together with their solicitors and neutrals to reach agreements without resorting to court proceedings.

Each party has their own collaboratively trained solicitor and all parties agree to resolve matters through open, honest discussions.

The process involves a series of face-to-face meetings, often referred to as 'four-way meetings' where the couple, with the support of their solicitors and other professionals where necessary (divorce coaches, independent financial advisors, financial planners), addresses all issues — from financial settlements to child arrangements.

The ultimate goal is to create practical, tailored solutions that work for everyone involved.

How does collaborative law work?

Being trained as a collaborative solicitor means that I (like other non-court dispute trained solicitors) have a unique and forward-thinking approach to resolving family disputes.

My focus is solution based, whilst being mindful of the journey that my client is on.

Each client is unique and each case is unique. When I meet with a client, I look to understand what they specifically need from me and my approach to their circumstances changes accordingly.

What are the benefits of collaborative working for clients?

  • Avoid courtroom stress and conflict

Court proceedings can be adversarial, costly and emotionally draining.

Collaborative law provides an alternative where disputes are resolved around a table rather than in a courtroom.

This process fosters mutual respect and allows for more constructive conversations, which is particularly beneficial when ongoing relationships, such as co-parenting, are involved.

  • Puts clients in control

In the collaborative process, clients retain control over the decisions affecting their lives, rather than having outcomes imposed by a judge.

I work closely with my clients to ensure their voices are heard and agreements reflect their priorities and values.

This empowers clients to take ownership of their future and feel more confident in the decisions being made.

  • Tailored solutions

Every family is unique and collaborative law recognises this by allowing for creative and bespoke solutions that suit individual circumstances.

My training and experience enable me to guide clients toward agreements that are practical, fair, and sustainable, ensuring long-term benefits for all parties involved.

  • Relationships

For families with children, maintaining a cooperative relationship post-separation is crucial. Collaborative law encourages communication and understanding, helping parents build a foundation for effective co-parenting.

  • Reduces costs and time

Court proceedings can be expensive and protracted. Collaborative law is often more cost-effective and quicker, as the focus is on resolving issues efficiently through direct negotiation.

What is your approach?

In my practice, I help clients navigate the complexities of separation in a way that prioritises dignity, respect, and long-term solutions.

I bring expertise and precision to every case, ensuring my clients receive the best possible advice and outcomes. My in-depth understanding of family law allows me to navigate even the most complex situations with confidence and clarity.

However, legal knowledge alone isn’t enough. I believe empathy is just as vital. I understand separation and family disputes are deeply personal and often emotional experiences. By approaching every client with compassion and understanding, I create a safe and supportive space where they feel heard and valued.

Whether using the specific process of collaborative law or handling matters through solicitor negotiation or, the court process (which cannot always be avoided) I offer a respectful, efficient, and forward-thinking way to resolve family disputes, and my expertise in this area assists clients seeking a less adversarial approach.

By focusing on collaboration rather than conflict, I look to help clients achieve outcomes that work for everyone involved, paving the way for a smoother transition to the next chapter of their lives.

How can people get in touch with you?

If you would like to advice relating to separation, contact Charlotte Perry at charlotte.perry@knightsplc.com or call 07856 911468.

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